Chapter 1 Who am I Am I a loser? Hi I’m Jack Higgins. I’m going to tell you my story of how I met the girl of my dreams and… FROZE. Well, yeah, at first I froze, then I sulked. After sulking, I gained some extra weight. But before we get into all that, let …
Training in Ramadan
هل تريدين التدريب البدني في رمضان؟ انضموا إليّ وأنا أعطي لكم كيف أتدرب في رمضان The first thing you must remember is that Ramadan is the month where we dedicate more of our time to worshipping Allah and less of our time on things we would normally do. Therefore, even if you want to keep …
LOVE ME FOR WHO I AM
Have you ever heard the song, “Love me for Me” by Jamali? I grew up with songs of female artists singing about how men should just accept them for who they are. Now, obviously, in general people should all be accepted for who they are because there is realistically nothing else you could possibly do. …
Polygyny Maybe?
When men and women start out in polygyny they often struggle. Women struggle with feeling jealous and have trouble reigning it in. Men struggle with having to divide their time between two or more families.
The Principles
As a rule, always put the shoe on the other foot when you want to do something you are not sure is right. Would you like that other men flirt with your wife? So why would it be ok for you to do that?
From the book, “Live your Life as a Man”
Be strong, be brave, be useful, be you. You are a man and as a man you must hold to what your expectations are. Incidentally, men do not have nearly as many expectations as women do. That’s why your expectations are what matters, not hers.
Why the mating dance goes wrong
Over millions of years of evolution and for the first time in modern history we’ve experienced an unprecedented change in the variables we need to negotiate in order to have a viable relationship. Couples can now negotiate whether or not they’re going to have children. Who is going to be the primary breadwinner and primary …
Boundaries in Relationships
I remember the days when I would see a really beautiful woman, let’s a say a 10 out of 10, go up to her and try to start a conversation with her. I would say, “Hi, how are you?” She’d reply, “fine.” I’d say, what’s your name, she’d say, “Anna.” I’d be like, “what are …
Be contented not complacent
A person once told me, “Ambition is what kills you. You are never contented with what you have…” I thought about that for a while. It was true that I was always trying to improve my life, and I was never ‘satisfied’ with what I have. It was never good enough. I always wanted the …
What’s my calling?
There’s this idea that everyone has a calling. When you do what you’re really supposed to do, somehow you’ll feel fulfilled in life. In fact, everything will just fall into place for you. I’ve heard that story over and over, and truthfully, I don’t buy it. I don’t buy it because as much as it …
The Spirit of Discomfort
Have you ever told yourself that things would be so much better if only you didn’t have to catch the bus at 6am in the morning? Wouldn’t life be so much better if only you weren’t single? If only you had more money, you would be able to do so much more. If…. Only…. If …
POLYGYNY MAYBE NOT? A GUIDE TO MONOGAMY
I cannot give you a rule book on monogamous marriage without first clarifying why monogamy is difficult for many people. Hence, some of what I state in this book is a restatement of some of the content in my previous book.
The Hypocrisy of Western Men
Over years of dealing with Western men and Western ideals I’ve come to realise that there is an inherent contradiction with most of the ways in which they approach sex and the sexual market place. Being part of the Manosphere, there are real problems in the Gynocentric Western nations that favour women and women’s rights …
Do you know who your father is?
Part of the problem that has befallen modern man is that we often no longer know from whence we come. Part of the human evolution was to survive in a group. That group was the tribe. Everyone had a tribe, some tribes were bigger than others. In today’s modern landscape we no longer know where …
My thoughts on the movie “Don’t Look Up”
Spoiler Alert! If you haven’t yet watched the movie you should probably not read this. I’ll not divulge the details of the movie but I’ll tell you what I think it blatantly points out. America, and the entire world as a result, is basically screwed. Not because of lack of resources or the lack of …
Gender roles between the old and the new
In traditional societies and even in modern societies men are expected, as part of their manhood, to be providers. I have, and still advocate that men be providers but I have made it conditional to the type of women they are married to, if at all. Simply put, we must view traditional gender roles in …
