Become the best version of yourself
Men the world over, are increasingly discouraged from getting married. Why get married when the majority of marriages end in divorce? Why get married when so many women leave their husbands when least expected to? In response these questions I will attempt not only to explain to men why they should get married, but also […]
Written by coachdebruyns Choice! There was a time when people had to choose between watching channel one or channel two on their television sets. As a kid we’d play cricket, rugby or soccer. Occasionally we’d play some other games. When it came to ice-cream, it was either chocolate, strawberry or vanilla. In a world with little variables it […]
Written by coachdebruyns “Failure is not an option…come on son… push harder..” This kind of talk works well in the gym. A lot of the motivational books out there try to tap into this hunger for attaining success. “Ask yourself, how badly do you want it. Imagine it, feel it, touch it, savor it… Now get to work!” […]
Written by coachdebruyns … tell men that we women want to feel protected and wanted too… of course this is just me… but my girlfriends said the same thing. Usually none of us have financial security and we rely on the protection/security aspect and we just want to feel wanted.
Written by coachdebruyns The distance between knowledge and ignorance is the extent to which you are able to admit things to yourself.
Written by coachdebruyns We try to find peace in our lives in various ways. Some of us look for peace in our families, others in our hobbies. Some of us are at peace when we pray, others when we are outdoors in nature. Some use various activities to help them escape from a turbulent reality- one that […]
Written by coachdebruyns “I am in the process of starting a new business…. I seem apprehensive about it.” It’s tough to get a business off the group. If you’ve ever been there and decided to close shop, you will naturally find yourself a bit hesitant to go there again. Some of the struggles in your previous business might […]
Written by coachdebruyns The art of naming, I am led to believe, is primarily a human trait. The revelation I read and try to follow, the Qur’an, talks about how God taught Adam the names of all things. (2:118) Naming is a very big deal because it is the foundation of a vocabulary and as a result, the […]
Written by coachdebruyns If you want to be a doctor, a lawyer or an engineer you will need a solid qualification just to be allowed into the industry- and for good reason.
Written by coachdebruyns Every so often a woman shows up and says, “I just can’t find a man who will commit…” There are certain things about a lot of men that a lot of times go unnoticed in a world that is increasingly unwilling to acknowledge anything masculine. Hopefully, you want a man to commit out of his […]
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