Marriage Is A Serious Affair

Marriage is a serious affair. Pun intended. You can’t just marry a woman because you feel you need a wife. You need to vet her fully and properly, both for her sake and your sake, so that hopefully your marriage doesn’t end in divorce. I’ve had women ask me to marry them, and I turned […]
Hypergamy is Real

When men complain about lack of support it’s because men don’t support each other. A lot of men are constantly talking to women and helping women. When it comes to supporting other men, they’re not willing to do so. Women, on average, won’t support men either because why should they? He’s a man. Why can’t […]
Red Pill and the Quran: Is the Quran Closer to Red Pill Reality or Simp Culture?

Originally from the video “Red Pill and the Quran, “Sometimes I catch flak for my content. People say it’s completely outside the context of Islam. As a Muslim, they argue, I should stick strictly to quoting Quranic verses, Hadith, or books of jurisprudence every single time I open my mouth. Let me push back on […]
12 Reasons For Polygyny #10

Reason # 10 Polygyny Protects Monogamy I alluded to polygyny being the guardian of real monogamy in society. This might sound contradictory because many of us think like computers, in 1’s and 0’s. In reality polygyny isn’t the opposite of monogamy. In the past, both polygyny and monogamy was simply called marriage. Polygyny isn’t the […]
12 Reasons For Polygyny

Reason # 7 Polygyny Solves Sexual Incompatibility Problems Let’s walk through a scenario. You’re in grade 12, and you’ve been with your high school sweetheart for 3 years. Before you go to college, you and your parents decide that it’s best to get married. You’re both 18 years old, and everything is fantastic for the […]
12 Reasons For Polygyny

REASON #4 POLYGYNY PROTECTS MARRIAGES What is the most common complaint that women have in their marriages? They complain that their husbands are inadequate one way or another. Either the man doesn’t earn enough or he doesn’t satisfy her sexually, or he is abusive or he cheats. These are common complaints. What is the most […]
12 Reasons For Polygyny

Get Yourself Another Wife Coach De Bruyns – 4 January 2026 Introduction Over the many years I’ve advocated for polygyny and practiced it, I’ve consistently gotten a dearth of opposition from all over the world. I’ve gotten opposition from Christians, Muslims, Jews, Hindus, Atheists, Feminists and even so called traditional men and women. I’ve been […]
Dear Ladies,

Here is some priceless free advice I’ve gathered over the years of coaching couples. When your husband leaves home in the morning, he enters an office with four women: Sally, Megan, Halimah, and Chevon. Sally is his secretary. She wears high heels and a mini-skirt every day, always obeys her boss, and does whatever he […]
How to choose a good wife

Men the world over, are increasingly discouraged from getting married. Why get married when the majority of marriages end in divorce? Why get married when so many women leave their husbands when least expected to? In response these questions I will attempt not only to explain to men why they should get married, but also […]