Hello, I’m Coach De Bruyns, a South African author, blogger, and life coach dedicated to exploring the pillars of masculinity, traditional values, and resilient family dynamics in a rapidly changing world. I have over 14 years of experience in the fields of business and education. As an author, I’ve penned thought-provoking books like Polygyny Maybe? A Practical Guide to Polygyny, How to Get and Keep a Wife, the Terrorist Next Door series (including Hate at First Sight and Prison Sentence), IT IS WHAT IT IS, and many more. My writing draws from personal experience, offering practical insights on gender roles, societal norms, religion, and Quranic governance to help men build stronger, more purposeful lives. Beyond the page, I’m an avid athlete with a passion for combat sports—training in boxing, Muay Thai, karate, and judo since childhood. Whether through my books, blog, or coaching, my mission is to challenge modern narratives and guide others toward authentic strength and fulfillment.
Get your life on track now and drop me a message:
Maybe you don’t really like texting. That’s okay, I’m the same. You can book a free session, and we can have a 15-minute conversation.
What does Coach De Bruyns offer?
WE OFFER:
I coach men on how to reassert their dominance within their relationships without having to resort to aggression. I teach men how to work harder, train harder, fight harder, and take control of their lives. Every man is different. That’s why I offer one-on-one sessions so we can bring these valuable lessons directly to you.
- Polygyny Coaching
- Relationship Coaching
- Guidance Coaching
I am also a polygynist with multiple wives and a proponent of traditional values that place family at the center of society, not the individual. I am ready to help you transform if you are ready to work on yourself. In just a few consultations, you could go from having little to no direction to being single-minded enough to accomplish your goals.
As a Life Coach, I have the experience, and I’ve done the time so that you don’t have to. I not only lived a big life myself, where I engaged in many escapades of various types, but I also shared in the lives of others who taught me valuable life lessons. Experience with people teaches us that while everyone is unique, we all share very similar challenges. Having dealt with such challenges both personally and through the people I’ve counselled, I understand that there is a crisis in the world of interpersonal relationships and finding direction in life. We have, in modern times, lost the identity of tribe, extended families, and even nuclear families. We struggle to find our meaningful place. We ask questions like, “Do I even matter to anyone?” Why not reach out and let me help you?