12 Reasons For Polygyny #10

Reason # 10 Polygyny Protects Monogamy I alluded to polygyny being the guardian of real monogamy in society. This might sound contradictory because many of us think like computers, in 1’s and 0’s. In reality polygyny isn’t the opposite of monogamy. In the past, both polygyny and monogamy was simply called marriage. Polygyny isn’t the […]
12 Reasons for Polygyny

Reason # 9 Polygyny Builds Resilience A tough life teaches a person to be tough. The natural thing for people to do is to run away from difficulties. We tend to believe the more comfortable we can make life, the better. Whereas, in reality, difficulties build resilience. Nothing worthwhile doing is easy. When you watch […]
12 Reasons For Polygyny

Reason # 7 Polygyny Solves Sexual Incompatibility Problems Let’s walk through a scenario. You’re in grade 12, and you’ve been with your high school sweetheart for 3 years. Before you go to college, you and your parents decide that it’s best to get married. You’re both 18 years old, and everything is fantastic for the […]
12 Reasons For Polygyny

REASON # 6 POLYGYNY BUILDS WEALTH Imagine being a woman alone raising five or six kids while your husband is hard at work trying to put food on the table and you know you could help him, but you just don’t have the time. Imagine, you could get a full-time baby sister that you didn’t […]
12 Reasons For Polygyny

Reason # 8 Polygyny Encourages Marriage Have you ever talked to men and asked them why they’re not married yet when they’re nearing their thirties? Do you think most men would say it’s because they can’t afford it? That’s not normally the case. A lot of men, especially in our Western world, say that they’re […]
12 REASONS FOR POLYGYNY #5

REASON #5 POLYGYNY PREVENTS SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASES In the introduction to this article I alluded to the severe reduction in sexual communism as a result of the institutionalization of polygyny. In societies where polygyny is practiced people have fewer sexual partners not more of them. More importantly, the loop for any particular sexual ecosystem (a […]
12 Reasons For Polygyny

REASON #4 POLYGYNY PROTECTS MARRIAGES What is the most common complaint that women have in their marriages? They complain that their husbands are inadequate one way or another. Either the man doesn’t earn enough or he doesn’t satisfy her sexually, or he is abusive or he cheats. These are common complaints. What is the most […]
12 Reasons for Polygyny

REASON #3 IT PROTECTS WOMEN Believe it or not, men who desire to have sex with multiple women CAN do so rather easily without ever having to marry any of them. Marriage is the guarantee that men do not take women without commitment. Most fathers, if they must be honest, would rather have their daughters […]
12 Reasons For Polygyny

Get Yourself Another Wife Coach De Bruyns – 4 January 2026 Introduction Over the many years I’ve advocated for polygyny and practiced it, I’ve consistently gotten a dearth of opposition from all over the world. I’ve gotten opposition from Christians, Muslims, Jews, Hindus, Atheists, Feminists and even so called traditional men and women. I’ve been […]
Dear Ladies,

Here is some priceless free advice I’ve gathered over the years of coaching couples. When your husband leaves home in the morning, he enters an office with four women: Sally, Megan, Halimah, and Chevon. Sally is his secretary. She wears high heels and a mini-skirt every day, always obeys her boss, and does whatever he […]