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12 Reasons for Polygyny
REASON #3 IT PROTECTS WOMEN Believe it or not, men who desire to have sex with multiple women CAN do so rather easily without ever having to marry any of them. Marriage is the guarantee that men do not take women without commitment. Most fathers, if they must be honest, would rather have their daughters […]
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12 Reasons For Polygyny
Get Yourself Another Wife Coach De Bruyns – 4 January 2026 Introduction Over the many years I’ve advocated for polygyny and practiced it, I’ve consistently gotten a dearth of opposition from all over the world. I’ve gotten opposition from Christians, Muslims, Jews, Hindus, Atheists, Feminists and even so called traditional men and women. I’ve been […]
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Dear Ladies,
Here is some priceless free advice I’ve gathered over the years of coaching couples. When your husband leaves home in the morning, he enters an office with four women: Sally, Megan, Halimah, and Chevon. Sally is his secretary. She wears high heels and a mini-skirt every day, always obeys her boss, and does whatever he […]
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Why Polygyny?
Brothers, if you’re reading this, you’re probably a man who’s tired of the monogamy trap, feeling that natural pull to expand your family and legacy with more than one wife. Polygyny isn’t for the weak or the promiscuous—it’s for decent men who want loyalty, commitment, and a closed system where everyone benefits. In my book […]
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WHAT IS A HUSBAND?
Marriage itself doesn’t exist in a vacuum. A husband isn’t just a man who is married to a woman. A husband is an agent of order, law, and governance for his wives and children. He must make sure there is compliance on the part of his flock as mandated by God. The hierarchy of marriage […]
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Exploring Modern Marriage: A Multifaceted Perspective
Is marriage a one-size-fits-all? Must it be that a man provides for a woman who is the homemaker? Or can marriage assume various formats? Must it be monogamous, or can it also be polygamous or polyandrous? When is it no longer considered marriage? In this essay, I will deconstruct the various levels of marriage. I […]
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Patriarchy and Marriage
A real Christian and Muslim can only marry women from patriarchy as wives becuase it is ordinarily a requirement for a virgin woman to be given in marriage by her male guardian who is typically her father or grandfather. The idea that a woman is “given away” shows that marriage is a patriarchal institution. On […]
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How do I know when my husband or wife is cheating?
This is a question as a relationship coach I get often. As a polygynous man, I personally experienced women cheating mainly because those women didn’t understand polygyny. They felt, that since I had multiple wives, they can have multiple husbands but of course hid the fact that they were pursuing their options. In an ideal […]
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Where does monogamy start?
You cannot expect a generation of people who grew up in broken homes to all be monogamous. You cannot expect people who don’t know how to be loyal, to be loyal. Monogamy starts with the way in which you were raised. Did you have to carry out tasks to completion, or could you chop and […]
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Survival Strategies between Men and Women
Men prioritise the survival of others, women prioritise their own survival. Read that again. Women are the carriers of the species and men are the carriers of a civilization- essentially built in the interest of safety or the survival of a collective. Men are built to act in the interest of a group, women are […]
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