Here is some priceless free advice I’ve gathered over the years of coaching couples. When your husband leaves home in the morning, he enters an office with four women: Sally, Megan, Halimah, and Chevon.
Sally is his secretary. She wears high heels and a mini-skirt every day, always obeys her boss, and does whatever he asks. Occasionally she flashes a bright smile, and on days she’s ovulating, she makes overt sexual gestures because her hormones dictate it.
Megan is the tea girl. She brings tea and snacks whenever he wants, wondering what life would be like if she didn’t have to work—like you. Maybe if she flashes cleavage and asks daily if there’s “anything else he needs” (hint hint), she could hook him.
Halimah is a divorcée and his co-worker next door. She’s so sexually frustrated he can practically hear her body pulsing. She tries to hold it together but feels like she’ll explode any day. She never wants to marry again, so being a side chick is starting to look appealing.
Chevon is a young, reckless trainee who just wants a good time. She openly propositions your husband now and then, but he thinks she’s just being cute because she’s young. He always refuses, though some days he imagines it would be worlds of fun.
Then there’s you. Every morning when he leaves, you’re asleep, and when he returns, you’re in a tracksuit or pajamas. You’ve let yourself go—you’re overweight, untidy—and you can’t wait to list all the things he still must do. Every day, you weaken his resolve to stay loyal because you refuse to prioritize what he wants. When he met you, you were Sally, Megan, Halimah, and Chevon combined. Now you’re just an inconsiderate roommate.
I’m not saying it’s right for him to sleep with one of them, but you can at least understand why it happens.
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