Every day, I see posts and comments that portray either men or women in a negative light. The Red Pill movement has a tendency to portray women based on the traits and experiences of the worst kinds of women. “All women are whores!” Similarly, feminists try their best to paint men with the same brush that is used to paint those men who are in prison for murder and rape. “All men are rapists.” Or they say, “Women give birth, what do men do?” In reality, a war between the genders has no victors. In this blog, I’ll carry it out to its logical societal conclusion.
All Women are Whores
Let’s start with the bitter men who appear to hate women. Imagine it were true that all women are whores? Would that include your mother? You wouldn’t say so, would you? Rather, the vast majority of women are not whores, and are actually not promiscuous at all. We tend to view the world online through a particular lens that literally only accounts for the culture of a minority of people: white Americans. Yes, Hollywood has promoted hook-up culture for decades, and it is true that the average liberal white American woman might have a higher body count than most women, but this isn’t a depiction of most women. In fact, it isn’t even a depiction of most American women who, despite Hollywood’s indoctrination and feminism are not in agreement with promiscuity. Most women, across the world, understand instinctively that promiscuity does not benefit them. The promiscuity campaign deliberately highlights women who say otherwise because it is economically advantageous to have working-class women be promiscuous. Why is that the case?
Classism
We live in a world of lords and peasants. It is not advantageous for slaves to have morals, establish stable families, and have ambitions greater than eating, sleeping, and fucking. Promiscuity breaks down social order and creates chaos. In turn, chaos produces cheaper labor and facilitates easier control over the slave market. A married woman has the vested interest of a man who will protect her from exploitation. In order to break women free from their “protectors,” it became necessary to highlight how all married men exploit and abuse women, just like it became necessary to depict all women as promiscuous when neither is true. Rather, it is just the opposite; a woman with a husband is, on average, less exploited than a woman without a husband. If he husband provides for her, then she doesn’t have to work, so she doesn’t directly benefit the economy. She also has less spending capacity, so her being married adversely affects the consumer market. She has fewer bags, fewer shoes, and fewer romantic trips than a single boss babe, and therefore is a net loss for Victoria Secret, Gucci, Coach, Louis Vuitton, Cartier etc. Similarly, the single man spends a lot more money on dates, boats, cars, and toys because he needs all those things to constantly attract a new mate. All chaos creates opportunity, and in our case, that opportunity is short-term profits at the expense of societal collapse with one important caveat. What is it?
Rich Men Have Housewives
It is not that the lords don’t recognize traditional values. They don’t recognize the need for peasants to have values, but they prefer it for themselves. It’s a double standard that has existed for centuries. The elite men have wives and children. Their wives are at home, do not sleep around with other men, and look after their children. They argue that they have traditional lifestyles because they can “afford” it. They also typically have side chicks from among the working class. The elite have the mindset of conquerors. They sleep with hundreds of working-class women for fun and marry from among the elite. They have access in ways that the average person won’t because they, in effect, “own” your women. Countless women sleep with their bosses, who also have wives at home. Those same women would not want to get married to men who are from among their number because peasants want to be lords, and marrying a lord or just sleeping with a lord raises the status of a slave.
Negotiating Power
Despite slavery and classism, apart from just raping peasant women, the slave women do have agency. Women can say no to promiscuity and demand the rights of free women. The elite do what they do because they CAN. That’s because the slave will do anything for a meal ticket. That is why the most dangerous thing is morality and faith. It is why God is the greatest enemy of the corrupt. Simple faith in God stops exploitation if people adhere to their moral values despite poverty. The Quran sets it right (2:221)
Do not marry unbelieving women (idolaters), until they believe: A slave woman who believes is better than an unbelieving woman, even though she allures you. Nor marry (your girls) to unbelievers until they believe: A man slave who believes is better than an unbeliever, even though he allures you. Unbelievers do (but) beckon you to the Fire. But Allah beckons by His Grace to the Garden (of bliss) and forgiveness, and makes His Signs clear to mankind: That they may celebrate His praise.
The elite are the polytheists because they have one set of rules for themselves and another set of rules for you. According to them, they have rights, and you have none. Their societies should be safe, while yours should be dangerous. Their women should be chaste, while your women should be whores. Their homes should be stable, while you should not have a home to begin with. Their children should be born free, while yours are born in captivity. The mistake that Muslims have made is that they view polytheism only in terms of the 7th century of worshiping statues, which in reality almost no one worships today, except in India. Whereas what the Quran talks about is a system of polytheism. That system is alive and well.
There is No Gender War
Finally, we must all reject the gender war that is actually staged. Men and women are partners in society. Every man has a mother, and every woman is the womb of the nations. The world cannot function without women, nor can it function without men. Most men are highly invested in their lovers, their daughters, their mothers, their aunts, and even their female friends. In fact, most men are highly invested in thousands if not millions of women they don’t know through the various industries they run. Men run the infrastructure that looks after billions of women. They run the electric plants, the water plants, the construction industry, the food industry, the medical industry and the vast majority of the governments of the world. These men are all highly invested in protecting women at large, not only the women they personally know. Not all women are whores, and not all men are rapists. Most women and most men are just trying to survive in a world where the real war is on the ordinary person.
The Myth of the Gender War
How to Choose and Keep a Wife is a much needed and in demand marriage guide for men in a time when marriages are just not working. This book doesn’t aim to fix the problems of women, or the problems with society. Rather, this book gives men a step by step guide on how to properly vet a woman for marriage. It also gives men clear guidance on how to manage being married and staying married. While some might see this book as idealistic, there is something in it for everyone. It tackles the issues of marriage both from an idealistic and pragmatic approach. On the one hand, the author sets forth an ideal but also acknowledges the real likelihood that the ideal will not be accomplished and gives practical advice on how to manoeuvre in less idealistic circumstances. Even though the target audience for this book is single men or men who are married and are having a hard time, it would prove useful for women who are looking at being good wives.
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