Become the best version of yourself
I was walking down the street deep in thought. That’s my normal state of affairs. I’m always deep in thought. I’ve struggled with being fully present most of my life, because I often get lost in the world ideas. On one such day, looking down as usual, a kid looked up at me and shot […]
Written by coachdebruyns There’s this idea that everyone has a calling. When you do what you’re really supposed to do, somehow you’ll feel fulfilled in life. In fact, everything will just fall into place for you. I’ve heard that story over and over, and truthfully, I don’t buy it. I don’t buy it because as much as it […]
Written by coachdebruyns I remember when I was around 10 years old and crazy about Karate. All the other kids would play soccer, rugby and cricket while I would practice my kicks day in and day out. Occasionally, I would also join them in playing some of the regular sports. I even tried out for the soccer team […]
Written by coachdebruyns I was sitting in front of my computer and I could feel the heat at the back of my legs. It was a very cold day and I welcomed the warmth. Every day, I’d switch the heater on behind as part of my winter routine. The building I work in is fairly new and the […]
Written by coachdebruyns Do you remember the time you bumped your head? Confidence and stupidity seemingly have a lot in common. I remember watching my kid running along the edge of a huge staircase that led into our tidal pool. I call it ‘ours’ because most days we were the only people there. When you are five minutes […]
Written by coachdebruyns A winner is a loser who keeps trying. Do you remember that story about the tortoise and the hare? If you don’t remember that story let me retell it to you in short. Once upon a time… J Basically the hare competed in a race against the tortoise. The hare was so much faster and […]
Written by coachdebruyns Everyone pretty much knows that exercise is important in maintaining a healthy lifestyle. Few people, however, know that it is also important for your mental and spiritual well-being. Don’t know where to start with doing physical exercise? Why not start by doing my morning strength and flexibility routine. It’s only 13 minutes long and it […]
Written by coachdebruyns Have you ever told yourself that things would be so much better if only you didn’t have to catch the bus at 6am in the morning? Wouldn’t life be so much better if only you weren’t single? If only you had more money, you would be able to do so much more. If…. Only…. If […]
Written by coachdebruyns I’ve spent the last few years of my life listening to disgruntled guys. “Women are the problem,” they say. The Youtube gurus are at it on the various MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way) channels, MRA’s are blaming feminism and those who aren’t saying much are enjoying the abundance of a deregulated sexual market place- […]
Written by coachdebruyns Your spirit is why everything matters in your life. It is because your spirit needs to be kept whole and sound. You need to keep your spirit full of light. Through bringing the mind, and the body in sync with the spirit you will achieve wholeness. Your spirit is the essence through which you connect […]
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