The Principles

As a rule, always put the shoe on the other foot when you want to do something you are not sure is right. Would you like that other men flirt with your wife? So why would it be ok for you to do that?

The Stupidity of MGTOW

Real men get married

Real men are responsible. Real men know that actions have consequences. Real men don’t sleep around.

The decision

father and daugther

I ran toward himAnd he turned away.I tried to hold on to himI could never get him to stay. I got tired, bone weary.Just went through the motions. Ignored the grief etched on his face So severely. Waited for my chance to escape. One day I was free.Left without a backward glance. What had he […]

Writing Letters

Writing Letters

By Laylah De Bruyns As the sun started to set on the horizon and twilight tinged the lingering hues of the day, the muadhin began his call to the Maghrib prayer. The people gathered in the courtyard at simple trestle tables murmured a prayer before breaking their fast. A mass supper was a frequent occurrence […]

From the book, “Live your Life as a Man”

Starting a Business?

Be strong, be brave, be useful, be you. You are a man and as a man you must hold to what your expectations are. Incidentally, men do not have nearly as many expectations as women do. That’s why your expectations are what matters, not hers.

From the book, ‘Get and Keep a Man.’

Get and Keep a Man

Prologue 5 Introduction 6 A chaste wife 9 A feminine wife 16 A pleasant wife 20 A responsible wife 23 A sexy wife 26 A supportive wife 29 A grateful wife 34 Conclusion 39 About the Author 40 Introduction I’m done having fun. I want something serious. Why would a man write a book about […]

Why the mating dance goes wrong

abuse

Over millions of years of evolution and for the first time in modern history we’ve experienced an unprecedented change in the variables we need to negotiate in order to have a viable relationship. Couples can now negotiate whether or not they’re going to have children. Who is going to be the primary breadwinner and primary […]

Prayer

Sujud

There are days when I find myself praying profusely and then there are days that I pray at a bare minimum. Sometimes the intimacy of God is craved and sought after, other times it is simply enough to acknowledge God as real. Prayer is one of the best ways to acknowledge the reality of God […]