Get Yourself Another Wife Coach De Bruyns – 4 January 2026 Introduction Over the many years I’ve advocated for polygyny and practiced it, I’ve consistently gotten a dearth of opposition from all over the world. I’ve gotten opposition from Christians, Muslims, Jews, Hindus, Atheists, Feminists and even so called traditional men and women. I’ve been…
Here is some priceless free advice I’ve gathered over the years of coaching couples. When your husband leaves home in the morning, he enters an office with four women: Sally, Megan, Halimah, and Chevon. Sally is his secretary. She wears high heels and a mini-skirt every day, always obeys her boss, and does whatever he…
Brothers, if you’re reading this, you’re probably a man who’s tired of the monogamy trap, feeling that natural pull to expand your family and legacy with more than one wife. Polygyny isn’t for the weak or the promiscuous—it’s for decent men who want loyalty, commitment, and a closed system where everyone benefits. In my book…
Marriage itself doesn’t exist in a vacuum. A husband isn’t just a man who is married to a woman. A husband is an agent of order, law, and governance for his wives and children. He must make sure there is compliance on the part of his flock as mandated by God. The hierarchy of marriage…
Is marriage a one-size-fits-all? Must it be that a man provides for a woman who is the homemaker? Or can marriage assume various formats? Must it be monogamous, or can it also be polygamous or polyandrous? When is it no longer considered marriage? In this essay, I will deconstruct the various levels of marriage. I…
A real Christian and Muslim can only marry women from patriarchy as wives becuase it is ordinarily a requirement for a virgin woman to be given in marriage by her male guardian who is typically her father or grandfather. The idea that a woman is “given away” shows that marriage is a patriarchal institution. On…
This is a question as a relationship coach I get often. As a polygynous man, I personally experienced women cheating mainly because those women didn’t understand polygyny. They felt, that since I had multiple wives, they can have multiple husbands but of course hid the fact that they were pursuing their options. In an ideal…
You cannot expect a generation of people who grew up in broken homes to all be monogamous. You cannot expect people who don’t know how to be loyal, to be loyal. Monogamy starts with the way in which you were raised. Did you have to carry out tasks to completion, or could you chop and…
Men prioritise the survival of others, women prioritise their own survival. Read that again. Women are the carriers of the species and men are the carriers of a civilization- essentially built in the interest of safety or the survival of a collective. Men are built to act in the interest of a group, women are…
Polygyny solves the problem of hypergamy as follows: Already in the Western world about 30% of young men under thirty are virgins while 100% of adult women have had or are having sex. Polygyny solves this problem because it requires that the man stay long-term with the women he wants. In other words, he doesn’t…
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