Brotherhood
There was a time that men understood the importance of supporting other men in the pursuit of order, family and […]
All I See is You
I recently watched the movie, “All I See is You” where this blind woman is the wife of an insurance
Decent men do not treate women who aren’t their sisters as sisters.
There’s a phenomenon that I’ve observed, especially amongst Arabs, who when they want to cross the threshold of what is
Why a spoken for woman shouldn’t have male friends
I have had this debate over and over again where women have told me that they are perfectly fine with
What should your relationship with wealth be like as a Muslim?
Can Muslims pursue wealth just for fun?
Why the Tate’s are innocent
I’ve been watching content of Andrew Tate for about a year now. I came across him just before he became
IT IS WHAT IT IS
COACH DE BRUYN’S PHILOSOPHY IN A NUTSHELL BOOKS PUBLISHED BY AUTHOR Live Your Life as a Man: Reclaim Your Masculinity
My First Fiction
Chapter 1 Who am I Am I a loser? Hi I’m Jack Higgins. I’m going to tell you my story
Training in Ramadan
هل تريدين التدريب البدني في رمضان؟ انضموا إليّ وأنا أعطي لكم كيف أتدرب في رمضان The first thing you must
LOVE ME FOR WHO I AM
Have you ever heard the song, “Love me for Me” by Jamali? I grew up with songs of female artists
Polygyny Maybe?
When men and women start out in polygyny they often struggle. Women struggle with feeling jealous and have trouble reigning it in. Men struggle with having to divide their time between two or more families.
The Principles
As a rule, always put the shoe on the other foot when you want to do something you are not sure is right. Would you like that other men flirt with your wife? So why would it be ok for you to do that?
From the book, “Live your Life as a Man”
Be strong, be brave, be useful, be you. You are a man and as a man you must hold to what your expectations are. Incidentally, men do not have nearly as many expectations as women do. That’s why your expectations are what matters, not hers.
Why the mating dance goes wrong
Over millions of years of evolution and for the first time in modern history we’ve experienced an unprecedented change in
Boundaries in Relationships
I remember the days when I would see a really beautiful woman, let’s a say a 10 out of 10,
Be contented not complacent
A person once told me, “Ambition is what kills you. You are never contented with what you have…” I thought
What’s my calling?
There’s this idea that everyone has a calling. When you do what you’re really supposed to do, somehow you’ll feel
The Spirit of Discomfort
Have you ever told yourself that things would be so much better if only you didn’t have to catch the
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Reason # 11 Polygyny Enhances the Economy When is an economy a good economy? Is it when there are 3000
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Reason # 10 Polygyny Protects Monogamy I alluded to polygyny being the guardian of real monogamy in society. This might
12 Reasons for Polygyny
Reason # 9 Polygyny Builds Resilience A tough life teaches a person to be tough. The natural thing for people
12 Reasons For Polygyny
Reason # 7 Polygyny Solves Sexual Incompatibility Problems Let’s walk through a scenario. You’re in grade 12, and you’ve been
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REASON # 6 POLYGYNY BUILDS WEALTH Imagine being a woman alone raising five or six kids while your husband is
12 Reasons For Polygyny
Reason # 8 Polygyny Encourages Marriage Have you ever talked to men and asked them why they’re not married yet
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REASON #5 POLYGYNY PREVENTS SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASES In the introduction to this article I alluded to the severe reduction in
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REASON #4 POLYGYNY PROTECTS MARRIAGES What is the most common complaint that women have in their marriages? They complain that
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REASON #3 IT PROTECTS WOMEN Believe it or not, men who desire to have sex with multiple women CAN do
12 Reasons For Polygyny
Get Yourself Another Wife Coach De Bruyns – 4 January 2026 Introduction Over the many years I’ve advocated for polygyny