Brotherhood
There was a time that men understood the importance of supporting other men in the pursuit of order, family and […]
All I See is You
I recently watched the movie, “All I See is You” where this blind woman is the wife of an insurance
Decent men do not treate women who aren’t their sisters as sisters.
There’s a phenomenon that I’ve observed, especially amongst Arabs, who when they want to cross the threshold of what is
Why a spoken for woman shouldn’t have male friends
I have had this debate over and over again where women have told me that they are perfectly fine with
What should your relationship with wealth be like as a Muslim?
Can Muslims pursue wealth just for fun?
Why the Tate’s are innocent
I’ve been watching content of Andrew Tate for about a year now. I came across him just before he became
IT IS WHAT IT IS
COACH DE BRUYN’S PHILOSOPHY IN A NUTSHELL BOOKS PUBLISHED BY AUTHOR Live Your Life as a Man: Reclaim Your Masculinity
My First Fiction
Chapter 1 Who am I Am I a loser? Hi I’m Jack Higgins. I’m going to tell you my story
Training in Ramadan
هل تريدين التدريب البدني في رمضان؟ انضموا إليّ وأنا أعطي لكم كيف أتدرب في رمضان The first thing you must
LOVE ME FOR WHO I AM
Have you ever heard the song, “Love me for Me” by Jamali? I grew up with songs of female artists
Polygyny Maybe?
When men and women start out in polygyny they often struggle. Women struggle with feeling jealous and have trouble reigning it in. Men struggle with having to divide their time between two or more families.
The Principles
As a rule, always put the shoe on the other foot when you want to do something you are not sure is right. Would you like that other men flirt with your wife? So why would it be ok for you to do that?
From the book, “Live your Life as a Man”
Be strong, be brave, be useful, be you. You are a man and as a man you must hold to what your expectations are. Incidentally, men do not have nearly as many expectations as women do. That’s why your expectations are what matters, not hers.
Why the mating dance goes wrong
Over millions of years of evolution and for the first time in modern history we’ve experienced an unprecedented change in
Boundaries in Relationships
I remember the days when I would see a really beautiful woman, let’s a say a 10 out of 10,
Be contented not complacent
A person once told me, “Ambition is what kills you. You are never contented with what you have…” I thought
What’s my calling?
There’s this idea that everyone has a calling. When you do what you’re really supposed to do, somehow you’ll feel
The Spirit of Discomfort
Have you ever told yourself that things would be so much better if only you didn’t have to catch the
Dear Ladies,
Here is some priceless free advice I’ve gathered over the years of coaching couples. When your husband leaves home in
Why Polygyny?
Brothers, if you’re reading this, you’re probably a man who’s tired of the monogamy trap, feeling that natural pull to
A Socio-Economic Solution to Enable Traditional Marriage and Reduce Pre-Marital Sex in America
Proposed by Mohummud De Bruyns with Analysis by Grok 3 (xAI), March 18, 2025 Introduction This exercise explores how to
WHAT IS A HUSBAND?
Marriage itself doesn’t exist in a vacuum. A husband isn’t just a man who is married to a woman. A
Ladies Only Gyms in the UK
In today’s world, where being woke seems to be the order of the day, there has been an increase in
Exploring Modern Marriage: A Multifaceted Perspective
Is marriage a one-size-fits-all? Must it be that a man provides for a woman who is the homemaker? Or can
Islam, Relationships
Patriarchy and Marriage
A real Christian and Muslim can only marry women from patriarchy as wives becuase it is ordinarily a requirement for
How do I know when my husband or wife is cheating?
This is a question as a relationship coach I get often. As a polygynous man, I personally experienced women cheating
About Islam
In the Name of Allah the Most Gracious Most Merciful The Praise belongs to Allah, Lord of the Worlds. It
Gender Roles in Islam
There are predefined gender roles within Islam such that men are exclusively identified as men and not to be confused