REASON #5 POLYGYNY PREVENTS SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASES In the introduction to this article I alluded to the severe reduction in sexual communism as a result of the institutionalization of polygyny. In societies where polygyny is practiced people have fewer sexual partners not more of them. More importantly, the loop for any particular sexual ecosystem (a…
REASON #4 POLYGYNY PROTECTS MARRIAGES What is the most common complaint that women have in their marriages? They complain that their husbands are inadequate one way or another. Either the man doesn’t earn enough or he doesn’t satisfy her sexually, or he is abusive or he cheats. These are common complaints. What is the most…
REASON #3 IT PROTECTS WOMEN Believe it or not, men who desire to have sex with multiple women CAN do so rather easily without ever having to marry any of them. Marriage is the guarantee that men do not take women without commitment. Most fathers, if they must be honest, would rather have their daughters…
Get Yourself Another Wife Coach De Bruyns – 4 January 2026 Introduction Over the many years I’ve advocated for polygyny and practiced it, I’ve consistently gotten a dearth of opposition from all over the world. I’ve gotten opposition from Christians, Muslims, Jews, Hindus, Atheists, Feminists and even so called traditional men and women. I’ve been…
Here is some priceless free advice I’ve gathered over the years of coaching couples. When your husband leaves home in the morning, he enters an office with four women: Sally, Megan, Halimah, and Chevon. Sally is his secretary. She wears high heels and a mini-skirt every day, always obeys her boss, and does whatever he…
Brothers, if you’re reading this, you’re probably a man who’s tired of the monogamy trap, feeling that natural pull to expand your family and legacy with more than one wife. Polygyny isn’t for the weak or the promiscuous—it’s for decent men who want loyalty, commitment, and a closed system where everyone benefits. In my book…
Proposed by Mohummud De Bruyns with Analysis by Grok 3 (xAI), March 18, 2025 Introduction This exercise explores how to enable traditional marriage (monogamous or polygynous) for most U.S. adult men and women, assuming stable families benefit society and pre-marital sex undermines them. Starting with only 1.5%-2.3% of men (2-3M) affording a balanced lifestyle ($80K-$100K),…
Marriage itself doesn’t exist in a vacuum. A husband isn’t just a man who is married to a woman. A husband is an agent of order, law, and governance for his wives and children. He must make sure there is compliance on the part of his flock as mandated by God. The hierarchy of marriage…
In today’s world, where being woke seems to be the order of the day, there has been an increase in unconventional communities, each fighting to be heard and recognized. One such community is the Trans community, which includes men who have transitioned to being women, and women who have transitioned to being men. Since the…
Is marriage a one-size-fits-all? Must it be that a man provides for a woman who is the homemaker? Or can marriage assume various formats? Must it be monogamous, or can it also be polygamous or polyandrous? When is it no longer considered marriage? In this essay, I will deconstruct the various levels of marriage. I…
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