What is a Wife?
From the book, “How to Choose and Keep a Wife: A Marriage Guide” by Coach De Bruyns First off, we won’t know how to choose a wife if we don’t know what a wife is. Many of us in the modern West have lost touch with what it means to have a wife because women […]
About Islam Part 1: The God Concept
Originally presented in video format – now adapted as a written blog post for deeper reflection.In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.All praise belongs to Allah, Lord of the Worlds. It is He who created us in truth, so that we might identify the truth through His guidance sent with His […]
Red Pill and the Quran: Is the Quran Closer to Red Pill Reality or Simp Culture?
Originally from the video “Red Pill and the Quran, “Sometimes I catch flak for my content. People say it’s completely outside the context of Islam. As a Muslim, they argue, I should stick strictly to quoting Quranic verses, Hadith, or books of jurisprudence every single time I open my mouth. Let me push back on […]
The Myth of the Gender Wars
Every day, I see posts and comments that portray either men or women in a negative light. The Red Pill movement has a tendency to portray women based on the traits and experiences of the worst kinds of women. “All women are whores!” Similarly, feminists try their best to paint men with the same brush […]
Strategy for Sexual Fulfillment
Welcome back to the channel, everyone. This is the third episode in my ongoing series on sex, marriage, and the powerful dynamics that either make or break a relationship. In today’s video, Strategies for Sexual Fulfillment in Marriage, I went much deeper than usual and gave men a complete, no-fluff blueprint for keeping the sexual […]
Virgin Sex and Muslim Culture
The discussion is rooted in Quran-first principles, historical hadiths, and practical advice, emphasizing patience, consent, and mutual fulfillment to build strong marriages. He promotes his book, Polygyny Maybe? (linked in the post) for further reading. The content flows logically from the cultural context of virginity and lack of knowledge, to courtship and marriage processes, and […]
Should a Dresscode be Imposed on Society?
Hello everyone, welcome back to my channel. In my video “Why there must be a prescribed dress code,” I explained why the idea that clothing is purely a personal choice is not only wrong but actually dangerous for any healthy society.Most people today say, “It’s my body, my choice—if I want to walk around naked, […]
SEXLESS MARRIAGES
Hey everyone, today I want to dive into a topic that’s often taboo but hits home for so many couples: sexless marriages. I’ve encountered this issue repeatedly where people, especially women, express frustration and dissatisfaction in their sex lives, while men tend to feel content most of the time. It’s rooted in our biological differences—men […]
Is the Quran closer to the Red Pill Movement or to the Simp Movement?
Overview The video titled “Red Pill and the Quran,” uploaded by the channel Coach De Bruyns on December 20, 2025, poses the question in its description: “Is the Quran closer to the Red Pill Movement or to the Simp Movement?” The speaker, presumably the channel host, delves into Islamic teachings from the Quran, specifically Surah […]
Forced Marriages and Consent
The first legal and ethical principle we must adhere to undermines our culture of forcing people to marry. We force people to marry when we do not allow them to object and or we threaten to disown our own children when they disobey us. We do this using religion no less. The Qur’an states (17:23): […]